Do you want to be a mother or a father one day?

I know some of you are already parents...If you would like to be a parent one day, how many kids would you want? Are you open to adopting? Why/why not.

Honestly, for myself, it's not even the act of giving birth that scares me, it's that one day I'll be left alone raising a child that I didn't even really want (I don't want kids) But I wouldn't be opposed to adopting a child that is maybe 4 years or older